I'm a big lad! A proper chunky monkey! Think Phil Jupitus sized and about 2/3 as funny! I'm active with it though and as much as I enjoy a cuddle on the couch, I'm just as happy out and about doing things! Oh and I recently got my first tattoo :) wanted one for almost 20 years but couldn't find a design I liked enough to go through with it until recently!

Anyways, aside from that I didn't know what to write about me here so I asked one of my best friends to "sell me" lol ;) Here's what she said...

"It's all in the name... well, mostly! A big bear of a man... needs to be to fit a heart that size inside him!! ...and to produce hugs of that size!!

Kind, thoughtful and generous in thought and deed... never knowingly undersold! ;)S
lightly odd (in a good way)... so only those with a sense of humour, the ridiculous and those who can see the silver lining need apply!!

We all have our low points so if you need laughing out of them... or listening with sympathy and understanding then Bear could be your man!! He tends to see himself as an observer of life... be warned, don't let him near a camera if you're on a night out! Some things should not be captured on film... my dancing being one of them!!

But, the observer in him does mean that he can see the trees when the rest of us can only see the forest, which can be handy... If annoyingly accurate at times!

A true king of a man who I'm privileged to call a friend! All he needs to make him perfect is a lovely girlfriend so he can stop dissing "Alfred" (mail him and ask!!!)

*please note: Mailing this Bear could have serious consequences for your facial muscles... on the plus side you burn more calories laughing... And it's generally more fun than the alternatives!"